Taylor Swift Gives Fan Advice About Love Via Instagram!
Earlier this week, the 24-year old, country pop star, Taylor Swift freely gave out amazing relationship advice to a young fan via Instagram. The young girl, by the name of Hannah, reached out to Swift in a post on Tuesday, July 22.
Hannah (@sherbetswift) confessed, “There’s a guy Taylor. A guy who’s sweet and charming and makes me laugh. A guy who said sorry for eating in front of me after finding out I had to skip breakfast. A guy who grew up across the street from me. A guy who plays guitar like me. A guy who was my first best friend.”
Unfortunately, it becomes evident that this sweet and charming guy happens to have a girlfriend whom she describes as, “actually nice” and “pretty” with “an amazing figure.”
In an final attempt to get her idol, T-Swift‘s attention, she continues, “Can you give me some advice maybe. I love you.” What happened next not only surprised her adoring fan, but it surprised us, as well! Taylor Swift responded!
With loving care, Swift delicately imparted some of her hard-won relationship wisdom upon the young fan. “Hannah. Eyes, eyes, eyes. Woah,” Swift stated in Hannah’s comments section. “You have the prettiest, widest, most child like eyes.”
Swift continued, “Okay. About this guy, I think we grow up thinking the only love that counts as true love is the kind that lasts forever or is fully realized. When you have a broken heart, the first thing a stranger will ask is ‘how long were you two together?’ As if your pain can be determined by how long you were with someone. Or if you were with them at all. I don’t think that’s how it works.”
Then she went on to say, “I think unrequited love is just as valid as any other kind. It’s just as crushing and just as thrilling. No matter what happens in this situation, I want you to remember that what you are doing is selfless and beautiful and kind. You are loving someone purely because you love them, not because you think you’ll ever have your affections reciprocated. You are admiring something for its beauty, without needing to own it. Feel good about being the kind of person who loves selflessly. I think someday you’ll find someone who loves you in that exact same way.”
Clearly touched by the kindest gesture from Swift, Hannah told the star: “You have no idea how much this means to me, thank you. I feel like you’re the big sister I don’t have. Thank you, I really did need to hear that from you.”
As if we couldn’t fall in love with you anymore Taylor Swift, once again, you’ve proven us wrong!