You Can Not Buy Self Love

Someone in my building is having sex and its very loud im not sure what to do, im trying not to listen. Goodmorning. I have been thinking a lot recently about us..meaning humans. So many people ask questions on how to be succesful, get the right boyfriend, land the perfect job, be happy…its all the same answer EVERY single time. Its almost so simple that no one acknowledges it. At the end of the day all you need is to love yourself, work hard and have self resepect. You would not believe the amount of people in this world that don’t do any of those three things, yet ask everyone around them how they can achieve greater goals. If you do these three things, and really do them…the friends, money. job, boyfriend, happiness will come. My only exclosure with this is: You can not love someone who doesn’t love themself. You need to wake up everyday and want to be a better person then you were the day before. You should only surround yourself with people that create that feeling in you. Sometimes i try so hard to make people see this. When it doesn’t work i get resentful twards them, I wish I didn’t but how can someone not want to be the best they can be? You can’t settle, never settle. Only date someone who makes you feel so special and pushes you to live each day to the fullest. Only have friends that bring the best out in you, only work a job that you love waking up to everyday. You should want to be the best you can be, not only for the people in your life but most of all, for yourself. How do you expect other people to respect you if you can’t even respect yourself? Everyday I want to try something I have never tried, go somewhere I have never gone, create something I could only dream of and learn something I never knew.

If you want something you have never had, do something you have never done. There will always be someone more skilled to take your job. More attractive and caring to steal your significant other. More open minded as a friend… but at the end of the day it all boils down to the same thing. The only people who can stand there ground above and beyond all of this is those with self love, hard work and respect.

If your not happy with your current situation you need to change something. I need to do some tweeking myself.

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