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Posted by k-ron on 05/01/2009 4:39 PM Visits: 660
mackenzayyyylove: 05/01/2009 7:13 PM
whats the best way to tell a guy you like him?
lor3nm: 05/01/2009 9:02 PM
How do you tell someone that you hate there guts for what they did to you without writing it through a song? . My Problem .
myatlhero: 05/01/2009 9:50 PM
How do you get rid of a really awkward silence between you and your date/love interest?
emprincessx: 05/02/2009 2:28 AM
How can I tell my best friend (who is a girl, I'm Bi by the way) that I really like her without scaring her off?? I've already asked her out but she said she wasn't ready for a serious relationship. It doesn't have to be serious though xxx
jerrydazzlepants: 05/02/2009 4:54 AM
LOL what's the funniest way to dump someone?
Andi.: 05/02/2009 8:23 PM
I love my boyfriend- I really do. But I only love him when we're fully clothed. As soon as we begin to get intimate, I begin to feel detatched. The farther we get, the less emotionally attached to him I feel. Any advice?
firelady308: 05/03/2009 6:21 AM
So there's this guy that i've known for 10 years and i've liked for 5 and i don't know how to get with him or get over him. When my friends tell me to ask him out i always tell them that there's no way he would ever like me, even though some of my friends swear that we could almost be carbon copies of each other. I've had heaps of chances to be with him coz we used to be good friends but I was always too scared that he would just reject me and now we've grow really far apart like he almost never even notices i'm there anymore except to talk rarely about music and concerts that we've been to. Now he's got another amazing girlfriend and it's really consuming my life, for example turning my mood absolutely dismal just seeing them talking and laughing, and just thinking about him all the time and thinking about all the what ifs. All my friends say that she'll just get bored of him and dump him in eight or so months like she did with her last boyfriend, but I think they're (my friends) just trying to make me feel better. I really do love him and I am forever grateful that he has found someone that makes him so happy even if it's ruining my life to not be with him or even to be his friend again. After telling my friends this they then say i should just get over him, which i have no idea how to do because i think about him day and night, and most importantly i can't listen to music without thinking about him because we both live for music and we both like EXACTLY the same stuff and there's no way i could live without music. THERE'S ONLY TWO THINGS KEEPING ME ALIVE AND THAT'S HIM AND MUSIC. THERE'S NO WAY I COULD GIVE UP BOTH. So everyone tells me i should just find someone else, date a few other guys, which i can't seem to do that either because i'm not even sure if guys under 18 (i'm 16 by the way) can see me. I'm invisable due to the fact that i'm not pretty, i'm a "nerd", i'm "emo", i'm shy with strangers and people i don't know well but loud and boisterous with my friends, i wear glasses, and i'm boring and not very good to talk to if your not one of my close friends, AND I'VE NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND OR BEEN KISSED OR EVEN HAVE ANYONE LIKE ME so i don't know what to do coz i've got no experience with dating someone. And guys over 18 (i mean like 18-26) are actually interested in me because they don't know/have all those prejudices and they think i'm 20, but even so i can't really even get to know them because of my parents.

SO BASICALLY I'M STUCK, CAN'T GET WITH HIM/CAN'T GET OVER HIM.
I'M SORRY FOR THE LONG STORY BUT I JUST WANTED TO KNOW WHAT I SHOULD DO BECAUSE I'M REALLY SICK OF BEING REALLY DEPRESSED OVER HIM AND CENTERING MY LIFE AROUND HIM.

- really really sorry
blueeyesdontlie: 05/03/2009 8:09 AM
I've a guy friend who i've known for like 8 months who my friends are like he totally likes you but i don't see it, he doesn't seem to show me any special attention but i don't know. how can you tell if he likes you without asking and being embarrassed?
shainatotally: 05/03/2009 10:58 PM
Why do guys freak out when girls cry? Even when the tears arn't their fault or have nothing to do with the them, they still can't handle a girl crying. I've seen guys nearly shit their pants over a few tears. Are you scared of the kinds of emotions that come with crying?
x33ryroninja: 05/04/2009 3:17 AM
me and my boyfriend recently broke up. he was my everything. i loved him more than anything. and i still do. i've been through alot of stuff during my life and i've never really been able to trust anyone. he knows pretty much everything about me. everything that's happened to me. he know's me better than i do. a few nights ago we had an arguement and he said some stuff that really hurt me. me, being the stupid dickhead i am, wasn't thinking and wrote something last night on twitter not realising he could see it on bebo. so now weve had another arguement. and he said that i think its "all about me" the thing is, what if he's right? i've never thought like that before so why now? what do i do to make things right? how can i not fuck it up any further? im on the edge. i cant take things anymore. im sosick of everything. please help.
hopefully could you maybe try and get alex gaskarth or jack barakat to answer this question? all time low saved my life once, hopefully they could do it again.
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