Add Comment
John O' Knows: "Change Is Inevitable ..."
Thanks to all of you who answered my questions on my birthday. Put a smile on your face please. Here are 5 more questions answered. Hopefully these help, not just the people asking, but those that are reading.
Photo Credit: Kariinwonderland
helloxxkittycupcake: What is your favorite style that girls wear? I've really been wondering what fashion you guys love and hate!
John: Haha I don't really know to tell you the truth. Style has little to do with attraction for me, but at the same time I don't want to see my crush show up to a party in a trash bag. Presentable attire works.
Isitsummeryet95: I'm really into finding new bands that aren't really popular or mainstream, any suggestions?
John: Check out a band called Coldplay, you'll love them. Not too many people have heard of them, so they're still "cool & hip."
Ellie: What is one thing everyone should be prepared for when they become an adult?
John: Start realizing that you have to take responsibility for YOUR actions, and refrain from shifting blame onto everyone and everything else around you.
xxatlluvrxthemainexx: I'm a teenage girl and these days I am dealing with people doing sex, drugs, and other things in which I don't want to deal with. How did you deal with that or how do you deal with that ?
John: The best advice that I have to give is to surround yourself with people that share similar values and morals as you. Ultimately, you own the right to make the decisions you do, and if that clashes with the decisions those around you are making I suggest you find new friends.
karatza: Well, I know that things can change, whether it be change of scenery, looks, or anything. But, do you think change can go too far? Like is there a difference between good, and bad change? I guess what I'm trying to get at is a lot of my friends are acting different. Not in a weird way, but with their personalities. You could say that they are acting "fake," they change how they act depending on who they are with. One friend of mine used to be my exact opposite, and that is why I became friends with her, but lately she seems to act like I do. It's getting rather annoying. So, is there anyway I can confront this change or fix it? If so, I'd love to hear your opinion on this. But, if not, thanks for giving it a thought.
John: Change is inevitable. If you feel the changes you are experiencing are detrimental, then make changes of your own that you feel strongly about. I'm sorry that is vague, but your situation is one you must come to your own terms on.
Be sure that you guys give me more questions to answer. You can leave your questions by CLICKING HERE.
| Posted by johnohhh on 08/07/2009 12:40 AM | Visits: 6,145 |
how should i talk to my dad about more emotional stuff? i know you've said that your dad has musically influenced you and that's the same for me. we can totally relate on that level, but my dad is kind of closed with his emotions. do you have any advice on how to bridge the gap? i'm leaving for college soon and i don't want us to be further apart than we already are. thanks for all the advice you've already given :) it means the world.
-gaby
but anyway, i had a fun time at the chat :)
cant wait for fall!
I got a question.
I dont fit into the world. I have no place to go at my school, and I have few friends. he friends I do have backstab me. People at school throw shit by me as I walk my. It sucks. I like being who I am. They joke that I am a depressed 'emo' but the truth is I am depressed. For the first 12 years of my life I as surronunded bu abuse,alcohol, drugs, and sex because of my mother. The only thing in life that makes me happy, My aunt whom I live with wants me to go to college into business. I just want you to say something That i can repeat to myself everyday to know that in the end its worth it all and that I shouldnt make my end come soooner then it needs too.
How do I drown out all the bad things I deal with in my life? Music helps me alot, and The Maine has been a huge help, but I've found that sometimes, music makes me even more depressed. I would never get involved with drugs or crap like that, so that's not anything I need to worry about, but do you know anything that would, not solve problems, but drown them out?
Thanks.