Ultra Skinny Isn't Sexy Anymore

As I was doing my routine Googleing of my own name (yes, I admittedly Google search myself), a particular "scene queen" Internet personality who usually pops up in a relevant search (whose name I wont mention), revealed her weight of an unhealthy 86 pounds.
What strikes me even more is the fact that so many young girls swoon over her image and claim her as an "idol" when she previously posted harsh remarks about the "ugliness of anorexia."

Anorexia is a disease; slender is a body type.
Please learn the difference and stop striving for the wrong one.

I speak for a widely shared opinion when I say "skinny chicks just arent hot anymore."

I cant even watch Americas Next Top Model with any of my guy friends without them screaming, "Eww, gross!" at the television (and those girls arent even skinny skinny). And Ive asked a numerous amount of guys which physic they prefer:
this

or this


They all will agree that the preferred girl requires a sturdy body, durability, and "more to love."

I will proudly admit that I weigh an average of 123 lbs on my good days. Though I have been called "fat" several times in the duration of being an "Internet Icon" (quote unquote; please dont take that term seriously), I take full pride in the status of my bodys physical appearance.

"The average American woman is 54" tall and weighs 140 pounds."

- US Department of Health and Human Services


Im happy with my weight, Im happy with my "pot belly" (thank you Fabienne from Pulp Fiction for making men realized that tummies are sexy), and my fella is notably happier than I am with the size of my thighs and stomach.

Its unfortunate that we have celebrities and people in the public and online eye that represent a false statistic.
You want to be sexy?
Be confident in who you are.

xoxo,
Corinne

ps. Id just like to note before Im attacked on it: I am not saying that if you are skinny, you are unattractive. There are different body types and not everyone can control being "skinner than average." Being uncontrollably skinny is mocked just as much as being uncontrollably larger. But please stop striving to be something that your body wont just because some brat bragged about being the same size as one of my legs.Thank you.

Posted by corinneeatsghosts on 12/29/2007 8:00 PM Visits: 45,344
adelineviolence: 12/29/2007 8:23 PM
ahhhhh man you totally hit it right on the head. Couldn't have said it better. :]
jaynedoe: 12/29/2007 10:33 PM
Thank you for making SO many points. In all your blogs, I mean. :P
breathefashion: 12/29/2007 11:00 PM
Omg, I think you should be every girls idol Corinne. You are one smart girl for being the age of 16. I honestly weigh about 180 and I am happy with how I look yes but I would love to be 150 maybe 145. I don't want to be like a stick like most girls these days are striving to be because, I rather have some meat on my bones than be a skeleton with flesh. Great point.
Buzzed. :)
nixiberry: 12/30/2007 3:28 AM
when was it cool in the first place? Nice Journal x
themixedxtape: 12/30/2007 11:26 AM
I couldn't agree with you more.
:]
rockster1039: 12/30/2007 11:44 AM
personally, i've always hated being thin. under my shirt, i have the "curves" of a pre-pubescent 12-year-old boy. i've always thought that women with curves are incredibly sexy. i get made fun of so much, and then i see women made fun of for being "over-weight" (what the hell does that term mean anyway?) and i see how strong some women are and i wish i was like that. *so buzzed*

Robin-Beth xx
modernartillery: 01/02/2008 9:50 PM
Even Nicole Richie is gaining more weight then she has to during her pregnancy to be a good role model for her unborn child.

Kim Kardashian is gorgeous and has a butt haha. I'm so glad Hollywood is finally getting over the Kate Moss look.
n!kk!_n@rc0t!c: 01/02/2008 9:51 PM
Thanks for putting up Kat as the desireable one :)
i think she is completely gorgeous and i know that she's got quite a little bit of chub on her tummy, i love it.

you are completely right about everything you say, im seeing more and more girls and women everyday that are closer to my size and yet are still being portrayed as 'attractive' and thats really helped me alot with coming to terms with my rather large body type and finally realizing that i can be pretty and appealing too :)
Trashcat Bailey: 01/02/2008 9:52 PM
you said it very well :) and i hear the part about super-skinny girls talking about "how bad anorexia is" quite a bit.
Haley: 01/02/2008 9:54 PM
Aww. Thank you for saying this. I have been so concerned about my weight when I know I don't need to. I am 107 lbs (which is healthy for my height 4'10'') But, yes. Thank you for this. You words are always so nice to read and help me through a lot.
bmfkatee: 01/02/2008 9:56 PM
point blank you got it.

i love you for every part of this.

couldnt be stated any better
Malissa: 01/02/2008 10:10 PM
"the same size as one of my legs."


Hahahahaaaa.
That's great. Oh man.


I love everything you write. It's all so full of wisdom, and it helps me out all the time.
It seems like all the different topics you post are the right topics at the right times in my life.
You keep me on track, Corinne.
Thanks. :]
Diana: 01/02/2008 10:59 PM
I love that you wrote this! It's very true. Unfortunately, most girls fall into eating disorders because they want control over themselves, not because they want to attract boys. Sometimes I freak out over my stature (5' 2.5", 115 lbs) but when that happens I never think about attracting a guy. It's true guys like healthy girls, but that's not the driving force behind most girls with eating disorders.

But yes, I'm glad you said it, especially here where people really need it. It'd be cool if this entry got featured...

And concerning your anonymous internet icon *coughkikikannibalcough*, she's a twig AND a bitch: two things that are NEVER in style. :D
Anonymous: 01/03/2008 2:05 AM
I'm 5'7 and 140... I don't want a girl bigger then me. Fat people are not attractive. This does not mean that skin and bones is very sexy either. The average american woman may be 5'4 and 140.. Thats because the average american is over wieght. Fat is gross healthy is not. Skeletor other wise known as the girl that runs to the bathroom pukin after every meal is not atractive either. So to sum it up. Work out stay tone stay cut and your ok. Sweaty rolls smell and no one likes to kiss a girl that just puked :) You my dear are not fat ....
Anon*: 01/04/2008 12:08 PM
Well Said. I hope people I know will consider reading this and learning from it. A metaphor might be (keyword might), What breaks easier, a twig, or a thick branch?
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