Is it possible to stay sane in a long distance relationship? Is the juice worth the squeeze? Coby Linder of Say Anything has lived through this mega-tough situation and stopped by Buzznet HQ to advise us on how to make it work in this edition of "Rock N Roll Therapy."


Mafiaprincess: I feel like an outcast in my own family. Everyone is always worried about my older brother, even though he's 20; he lives at home and is a college dropout. It's like, "Hello? Do I even exist?" Then with my friends, it's like I'm drifting away from all of them. I'm just depressed, and I'm fighting the urge to start cutting again. Then there's this whole sex thing. What's the big deal with being a virgin? Everyone has been doing it, and more than half the girls in my school are pregnant. It makes me think a lot about it and about having sex. I don't want to because I really wanna wait ... but it's getting so hard. I'm probably moving to another city, which really sucks because I don't wanna leave and go to a new school and be seen as the emo girl.


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Xxxpsychoxxx: I have been friends with this person for almost three years and we have become pretty close friends, but nothing more. The thing is I want more so bad. I think I am in love with them, but I don't want to tell them for fear of losing our friendship. It's pretty obvious that they don't feel the same way, but sometimes I am sure they do. What should I do?


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Musicmyboyfriend: There is this guy I really, really like and he lives about and hour and a half away. Every time I see him he blows me away with his personality and presence. I go up there almost every weekend and I get to see him and hang out and everything. And the thing is ... I'm not sure how to tell him. I've thought about being his girlfriend, but we aren't sure if long distance would work. Practically all our friends up there said we should be together, but then we think about the whole long distance thing again. How do I tell him that I am crazy over him? Help?


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