Elisa Jordana Exclaims, 'Dating a Guy With a Girlfriend Is a Really Bad Idea': Rock N Roll Therapy Rejection isn't easy ... especially when a girl tells you, "Hell no! You're too ugly." We all go through tough times in life, but suicide is never the answer. Pop singer Elisa Jordana and her personal photographer, Rachel Kemper, stopped by Buzznet HQ to advise us on how to get past our darkest days in this edition of Rock N Roll Therapy.  Isayweriott: So my best friend told me recently that this guy at school gives me these looks, like he wants to really ,really get to know me. I've avoided having eye contact with him because I'm afraid of what might happen. Today at a fire drill my friend told me that he looked me up and down and then smiled. If he wants to get to know me so much then why doesn't he talk to me? He has a girlfriend but that doesn't mean he's not allowed to talk to girls. Also, I just helped my friend get her first boyfriend and I don't expect a thank you from him, but she's never said thank you. I feel like he is replacing me. Finally, I started cutting again because I'm worried about basically everything. I am seriously considering suicide.  Click on the picture to view the video response.  Bulldozerkid: I liked this one girl, so I asked her out and she said, "Hell no! You're too ugly." What should I do now?  Click on the picture to view the video response.  Musicmyboyfriend: My parents and I have really bad communication and I don't feel like they know me that well. They don't even know that I like bands and guys! I really want to play the drums, but I'm having a really hard time asking them for lessons. I'm also scared that if I tell them that I love music, they might think I'm like my eldest brother, the rebel in our family, who nobody wants in the house anymore. He's also a music person. According to my parents, I'm already just like him! I believe that whatever I do are things a normal teen like me would do. If I say that I'm a music person, they might want to kick me out of the house, or at least hate me even more. [They hate me soo much already.] How will I tell them who I really am without being scared if they will accept me or not?  Click on the picture to view the video response. Have a personal issue? Would you like to get some advice from a musician? Post your situation in the Rock N Roll Therapy Group.
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First of all I believe you are a homosexual man. This is due to the fact that you wrote (in more or less) if you told your parents that you said you like guys then your parents will hate you more. I also believe that you are being completly honest with your self, very good.
I have three children and my first grand-son was born just this past February on leap year. My first son was, as my wife and I called him, a late bloomer. He never brought a girl home until his second year of college. My second son has already told me that he is gay. I think that this was mostly due to his older brother only bringing men to the house during high school. My daughter gave birth to my first grand-child, Veronica, in 2004.
Music, you must be as honest with your parents as you are with your self. From what I understand of the situation you have a large family. This meand that your parents have other people to rely on for grandkids. Your parents will love you as long as you tell them the truth, even if I belive it is better to be a mother fucker than one of them gay bastards that get their dick up to other dicks.
I have played percussion ever since I can remember. I started on piano, my mother was a talented piansit, then I bought a drum set and I taught my self the drum set by listening to The Beatles and playing along. You do not need lessons to learn the set. The set is all about: steady bass, hi-hat/ ride, CRASH on the down beats, and fill when required. Then again it all depends upon the type of music. Swing has a different pattern than tradional rock. I do not know too much about modern music, but I do know if you get into this new electronic music, my gay son introduced me to, you can use drum machine for all your tempo and then you can put any melondy and harmony you want behind it.
To make a long story short you need to tell your parents you're gay, or half-homo, in a way that they understand that you can make enough money to support your self with your music. That is of course you are not a female. That fucking guy from the Killers is bi-sexual frm what if understand and hes been doing just fine.
I can't tell you how to be gay, however I can teach you the drums. That is of course unless you're another one of them ambivalent mother fuckers that have no common sence to reply. My email is Sabin010@gmail.com.
suicide is never the option. i've been there and done that and personally i think its permanent solution temporary problem. elisa gave really good advice.
oh and to whoever 'Daniel' is, i am FEMALE and straight. not a homo. but thanks for the drum advice though.