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nikkixxx: 03/30/2008 2:30 PM

There is this guy I've known for a very long time, and the fact that I have many guy friends doesn't bother my parents, but this guy does. My mom always is telling me to be careful around him, and though I try, my so called,"girlish friend", gave him my number so we could "hook-up". That pissed off not only me, but my guy friends. And I just found out they didn't like him as well. Hes a good guy, but the calls are getting annoying. Any idea I can tell him to back off without a time bomb blowing off?

-Update!-
Ok,the guy stopped calling, but now hes stalking one of my guy friends!! Adam is fucking scared to death. He has been staying at my apartment for the past week and only leaves for school and with my parents.But this guy is scaring the both of us.He goes on Myspace calling me a traitor and a whore.I'm fucking scared.I never seen my friends this scared either.I'm thinking about calling the cops, but should I????Someone help!!
-Another freaking update!!-
We've been threatening, he vanishes for a bit, then it just starts all over!! We've even called the cops and his dad(who was the cop that showed up) YELLED at us saying we shouldn't prank call or accuse people of things without proof!!
Isn't this like,US of A!?!?!

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	xxxpsychoxxx: 04/01/2008 6:05 PM Just tell him you are not interested in him that way. Be straight forward or there could be problems. Tell him straight out that you only want to be friends. As for your other friends, they might be onto something that they don't like him. Maybe he is not such a good guy as you think. Or maybe he is and your friends might just be jealous. Just remember that sometimes friends see things that are blind to you.
	nikkixxx: 04/06/2008 12:39 PM xxxpsychoxxx said: Just tell him you are not interested in him that way. Be straight forward or there could be problems. Tell him straight out that you only want to be friends. As for your other friends, they might be onto something that they don't like him. Maybe he is not such a good guy as you think. Or maybe he is and your friends might just be jealous. Just remember that sometimes friends see things that are blind to you. Thank you. I tried this, and now I get what they're saying. He is getting.........kinda wierdy......
	xxxpsychoxxx: 04/06/2008 8:53 PM Yeah I know what you mean. Just stick with your friends. If they are good friends they will help you through everything. Just if he gets any weirder or anything.
	nikkixxx: 04/07/2008 3:18 PM xxxpsychoxxx said: Yeah I know what you mean. Just stick with your friends. If they are good friends they will help you through everything. Just if he gets any weirder or anything. Thank u!
	thetherapist: 04/25/2008 10:08 PM you have these friends who have your back, if he won't back off then you don't have to worry. they won't let him get weird with you, because it looks like they really are looking out for you.
	rlmheartsfob: 05/19/2008 7:23 PM OF COURSE CALL THE COPS! Sorry...all caps moment.... But if I even suspected someone stalking me...I'd pick up the phone and dial away! And you know that he is...then call! RIGHT NOW!
	nikkixxx: 05/20/2008 5:36 PM rlmheartsfob said: OF COURSE CALL THE COPS!Sorry...all caps moment....But if I even suspected someone stalking me...I'd pick up the phone and dial away!And you know that he is...then call! RIGHT NOW! Its just we have no proof!!We try to confront him and he runs off!!!!
	thetherapist: 05/20/2008 6:26 PM Without proof, you can still get a stalking order. It's like a restraining order, only without certain factors needed to put it in place. Once you get that, if he breaks to order then he gets taken to court. It's simple.
	rlmheartsfob: 05/21/2008 6:56 PM Exactly what the therapist said. =D
	nikkixxx: 05/22/2008 6:31 PM thetherapist said: Without proof, you can still get a stalking order. It's like a restraining order, only without certain factors needed to put it in place. Once you get that, if he breaks to order then he gets taken to court. It's simple. I didn't even know those existed.Thank you,we shall get them soon.Does it take long???