QOTD: Is pre-marital sex wrong?

PanasonicYouth: 03/11/2008 7:37 AM
Suggested by JohnnyNotSid.

Do you believe that it's moral and right to wait until you are in a marriage before you engage in sexual relations with another person? Or do you believe that this idea is outdated and archaic? Do you think that sex should be saved for someone you are in love with?

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kasperobscene: 03/11/2008 7:39 AM
i think the idea is completely outdated. of course, if someone wants to wait until they're married, then that is entirely their choice, and i won't criticise them for it.

personally, i don't ever want to get married, and well, it's a bit too late for me to die a virgin. i also don't believe that sex is something one should only do if one is in love. it certainly hasn't always been about love for me. sometimes sex is just sex, and can be enjoyed just for what it is.
How Do You Solve a Problem Like John Ortega?: 03/11/2008 7:42 AM
I think that one should just feel comfortable. If it is premarital, then so be it.

It's a personal decision and is different for most everyone. If you want to wait, so be it. If not, have fun and stay safe. ; )
pyro1000: 03/11/2008 7:42 AM
it depends on what the people think and what there moral standards are. me personaly , i'm in kind of a catch 22 situation. i have been raised to believe that pre-marital sex is a sin , but i love having sex just like everybody else that is sexually active. so if i do it , it's a sin , and if i don't do it , then i'm missing out.
unsceneunheard: 03/11/2008 7:45 AM
i think it depends on every individual. some are religious, some hold their morals above all else, some dont care at all. as long as no-one is getting hurt i dont see why a ring on your finger makes anything more just.
emmaeclipse: 03/11/2008 7:54 AM
personally i'm of the try before you buy belief. but if people want to wait for the ring, more power to them.
but remember kids, no glove no love.
loufromthebloc: 03/11/2008 7:59 AM
My mum has only ever been with my dad, and I really look up to her for that, but I think it depends. I do think it should be saved for someone your in love with, but people can still be in love and not have a wedding ring on their finger.
Stinchey: 03/11/2008 8:01 AM
I didn't wait until I was married but it is all down to personal belief. I am not religious so there were no rules to follow there. I just trusted myself and did what I thought was right for me.
boricua3: 03/11/2008 8:21 AM
According to an article in the Time mag, the great cause for divorce in this country is sexual inadequacy. If u can test drive it before u buy it, the better chances it'll last. Even so in my opinion sex should be saved for someone you are in love with, and with whom u believe u might have a future.

I believe that those who succumb to sex easily have more difficulty keeping serious relationships than those who wait.

Having sex just to have sex is inmoral and it devalues the person.

Bottom line, if u want to be taken seriously...wait.
Buzznet's Official New Age Amazon: 03/11/2008 8:27 AM
The only time sex between two adults is ever wrong is if either participant is unwilling or if either disrespects their partner by not practicing safe sex.
landaslightly: 03/11/2008 8:30 AM
I don't think that premarital sex is wrong. If someone believes otherwise that is their decision but it cannot be taken lightly deciding whether to have it or not.
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