Was I wrong for treating her like that?

psidontloveyou: 05/12/2008 5:28 PM
My friend and I got into a fight. We got in to it because the other day I IMed her on hot mail to ask her why she seems to hate me (shes been really mean to me before the fight.) It was sort of like this:

Me: Hey
Friend: WHAT!?
Me: God, I just wanted to say hi!
Friend: ...
Me: I also wanted to know why you've been treating me my crap.
Friend: I'm sorry. I got my period. And I DONT hate you.
Me: WOW! You had it every time I said hi to you? Aren't you only supposed to have them once a mouth? Anyway, I know you hate me; So stop lying to yourself. I see how you act towards other people, all happy and huggable. And when you talk to me, you seem as if you want to just shot yourself every time I open my mouth.
Friend: Sorry. I just dont want anyone to realize that I'm worried about ____.
Me: So being a bitch to me is going to help? Nice.
Friend: JUST DONT TALK TO ME RIGHT NOW!
Me: gladly.

And today, being to paranoid person I am and my obsession of getting the last word, I emailed she saying:

"Hey. I'm not your friend anymore. I dont care about you anymore and I dont want anything to do with you. See you in hell."

She emailed me back saying,
".........fine..emo-brat."

And I said, "Sex-crazed fan girl."

Was I wrong for telling her off like that? Even through she was hurting but she took out all her anger and been a bitch to me?
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hungoverandunder: 05/15/2008 12:37 PM
honestly i'd say your both at fault, she is being unfair to you and your upset with the way she's treated you so weren't willing to accept her admittedly poor apology and so antagonised her back.

just give it some time to let the fire burn down and then see if you can put it behind you.

as i'm sure you know when your worried and feeling bad it's hard to be nice to those around you and that is why she treated you badly and why you returned the favour.
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