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Growing up isn't easy as Andrew from Danger Radio will tell you. Buzznet members have shared their problems with him about long distance relationships, rumors, falling in love and being judged by your appearance. Find out how Andrew responds. Check out this Rock N Roll Therapy.




Thetherapist: We started dating and automatically rumors started flying, because he seems to pick girls who, as ex girlfriends, like getting revenge. One girl starts trying to get him arrested as a sex offender --- the day after his 18th birthday. This is putting a lot of stress on us, especially since our one month was ON that same birthday. His brother Rudi came to town and from that point on Sean [my boyfriend] just wasn't the same. He got smashed or blazed every night, he started hanging out with his ex's and stopped so much as talking to me on the phone. Rudi has majorissues with his fiancé being OCD into his business and always needing to talk to him, which makes Rudi very depressed and causes him to drink...A LOT. Sean used to talk to me all the time so I'm goin to guess that he was terrified that he and I would end up that way. So I am in the process of trying to fix our relationship because of the strain being put on it by these girls and Sean's bad habits, and he IM's me saying that he's fallen out of love with me, we're over. I didn't believe him completely, so he came over, and said it again. But there was something in the way that he looked at me, or rather WOULDN'T look at me, that makes me feel like he didn't mean it...So now I'm not sure if I should hope that he'll come to his senses, or if I should just try to move on.

Andrew: There will always be obstacles in any relationship that you go into and at that age you will always find that there will always be people trying to spread rumors or getting into your business. If the relationship is strong enough it will definitely withstand all that comes at it. You just kind of have to know that what you have is worthwhile and make sure not to let things that other people do interfere with your relationship. As far as everything involving his brother and the bad habits that have been developing... I definitely wouldnt say to just give up. If you feel like what you have with him is real and you genuinely care about him and he feels the same way about you. You should just really try and sit down with him and talk everything over. Just make sure that
everything the two of you are feeling gets let out and everything will work out the way its supposed to.



Pompasaurus: If a relationship is doomed to failure based on logistics (the people are moving away from each other and do not want a long-term relationship) is it better to cut your losses and break up immediately, or to wait until the last moment?

Andrew: Well if the relationship is absolutely DOOMED but the people in the relationship really care about each other then it will be ridiculously hard on them no matter which way they go. I am actually currently in a long distance relationship and they are A LOT of work, but if you feel like the person you are with is worthwhile then Id say just try and stick it out and just see what happens. You never really know whats going to happen unless you try. Life is full of infinite possibilities.


Mafiaprincess: Okay so, I have a boyfriend, and he's a really amazing guy, I mean he brightens up my day. Wednesday will be our one month and I'm so happy. Well, I wanna know am I in l-o-v-e??? Cuz, people say I am, but I'm not even sure of what it is, everytime I think of him, I get butterflies in my stomach and I smile a lot, when he kisses me my knees actually get weak and my whole mind empties. I can feel myself blush just when he looks over at me and smiles, I can never get him off of my mind, i even dream of him! I just....I just don't know what to do, I have a feeling he loves me...but I don't know. I'm soo young, I'm only 16, and its only been almost a month? Can it really happen this fast??? plz help me....

Andrew: This question I definitely feel could be the hardest for anyone to answer. Especially for someone at the age of 16... I mean I'm definitely not saying that a 16 year old is incapable of loving someone but I feel like you might end up having a lot more relationships after this and only time will really tell. I definitely do believe that there is a chance you could be in love and if thats what you feel and you care immensely for him then yes. Love is a word that is thrown around a lot but the only person that I feel could answer this is the person feeling it.



Pearlcharms: I love rock music but I dont't love going to shows anymore, I'm overweight and I feel like the small skinny girls are always lookin at me like I don't belong, it's such an uncomfortable feeling cause were all there for the same reason, who cares how much I weigh? It would not bother me so much, but when I meet the band they only seem to want to talk to the pretty girls, I'm not a groupie and I dont want to have sex with them, just talk.

Andrew: I truly believe that you should always just love who you are no matter what. If you feel like others are looking at you and judging you that just means that they have issues of their own. As far as the band guys go... if they are treating you like that it just means that they are super shallow and you dont need to waste your time trying to get to know people like that. I really hope you know that not all of them are like that at all and you'll eventually find the good ones. I could name a million awesome bands that would love to talk to you just because you seem like an amazing
fan. Dont pay attention to people that make you feel like you are anything less than amazing.
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